Posted 7 hours ago
I wanted so badly to lie down next to her on the couch, to wrap my arms around her and sleep. Not fuck, like in those movies. Not even have sex. Just sleep together in the most innocent sense of the phrase. But I lacked the courage and she had a boyfriend and I was gawky and she was gorgeous and I was hopelessly boring and she was endlessly fascinating. So I walked back to my room and collapsed on the bottom bunk, thinking that if people were rain, I was drizzle and she was hurricane.
 John Green (Looking for Alaska)

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Posted 7 hours ago

andrewpauldost:

i want dogs to be allowed at more places and i want children under 6 to not be

Posted 8 hours ago

cyberuser:

cyberuser:

vvankinq:

cyberuser:

what do you call a message sent by a girl?

*sighs* what

a feMAIL

i got 7 messages saying this joke is offensive & that i’m the reason feminism exists

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Posted 9 hours ago

Look around your college classroom, spot the virgins.

See, this seems like a game until you skip over the girl with a short skirt and hair in front of her eyes because you heard last summer that she slept with like nineteen guys. You can’t see her hands, but they’re under the table, pulling a rosary through her fingers as she tries to wash the sin off her. She’s only ever kissed three people in her whole life and they’re all girls. She turned down the wrong guy and he told everyone she’s “a whore.” The label “slut” stuck to the bottom of her shoe and swallowed her up.

But that quiet girl who is always reading probably never touched someone else’s penis, you figure, because you don’t know that she goes home and strips down and pulls on tight black leather, you don’t know she’s got a set of whips that could make any set of knees quiver, you don’t know because she’s proud of what she does but she’s not stupid enough to let anyone know about it. She’s sexy, just not here, not where people judge.

See, the truth is: you have no idea who has lost their virginity, because it doesn’t change you. It doesn’t give you some kind of glow or superpower or stamp on your forehead. You know the feeling of waking up on your birthday and thinking “I don’t feel any older whatsoever”? That’s what maybe they’re all so afraid of you finding out: sex doesn’t change you. Sex doesn’t make you an animal, sex doesn’t suddenly make your relationship a million times more stable or intimate or romantic - it can’t fix what’s broken, although it can make the pain go away for a bit. Sex doesn’t really occur with eighty tea lights and a thick white rug. Sex is ugly and loud and frequently awkward, sex is excellent and breathtaking and when you wake up the next morning, you’re the exact same person. There’s not some magical connection with the person in bed beside you. Believe it or not, pregnancy isn’t some kind of punishment - but practice safe sex, get tested, don’t spread your germs around. They want to tell you, “Sex can ruin you” and I’ve heard that a lot as a little girl, that some boy would join me under my sheets and then dump me four days after, used, unhappy.

But I figured out that I’m not a fucking toy. Letting someone have sex with me is not letting them “use” me, because I’m not an object. My father said the issue lay in the fact “Men are insecure and need to know that they’re the best you ever had,” but I think that’s a steaming crock of absolute-wrong and if I didn’t tell the people I’m with how many others I’d slept beside, there would be literally no way for them to know my number, because I don’t rust, I don’t wear out, I don’t get bruised. I’m not a wilting fruit, I don’t go rotten.

But here’s the thing: some people connect sex and emotion. I don’t personally because I am probably secretly an ice storm in disguise, but I still respect my partner’s desires. If they’re the type to want love and sex to coincide, I let them. I don’t make fun, I don’t pull one-night-stands or friends-with-benefits, because it’s not their “reputation” I’m afraid for: it’s their heart I’m defending.

Here’s the thing: Instead of worrying about people’s “purity” and how it defines them as a person, worry instead about how you can protect other people’s emotions.

Because here’s the thing: look around your room and spot the virgins. Look harder. You can’t tell. Sex doesn’t alter people, it doesn’t make them act in a certain way nor dress in a certain manner. Sex and personality have nothing to do with each other. There’s a reason that virginity doesn’t show on someone’s face: because having sex doesn’t cause you to change.

"I lost my virginity to a boy I didn’t even love…" /// r.i.d (via inkskinned)
Posted 9 hours ago

It hurts knowing I never meant anything to you.

Posted 10 hours ago
I should have kissed you longer.
six word story (via bl-ossomed)

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Posted 10 hours ago
Drugs become addictive the day you decide to use it to fill the gaps in your heart instead of using it for short entertainment.
(via neobad)

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Posted 10 hours ago
The oddest things hurt me. They get stuck in my head and replay over and over.
Unknown   (via 13thmoon)

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Posted 10 hours ago

"HAVE YOU EVER" hour. DO IT.

  1. Okay people, this is your chance.
  2. 1. had sex?
  3. 2. bought condoms?
  4. 3. gotten pregnant?
  5. 4. failed a class?
  6. 5. kissed a boy?
  7. 6. kissed a girl?
  8. 7. had a job?
  9. 8. left the house without my wallet?
  10. 9. bullied someone on the internet?
  11. 10. sexted?
  12. 11. had sex in public?
  13. 12. smoked weed?
  14. 13. smoked cigarettes?
  15. 14. smoked a cigar?
  16. 15. drank alcohol?
  17. 16. been to a wedding?
  18. 17. been on the computer for 5 hours straight?
  19. 18. watched tv for 5 hours straight?
  20. 19. been late for school?
  21. 20. kissed in the rain?
  22. 21. showered with someone else?
  23. 22. been outside my home country?
  24. 23. been on a road trip longer than 5 hours?
  25. 24. had lice?
  26. 25. gotten my heart broken?
  27. 26. had a credit card?
  28. 27. been to a professional sports game?
  29. 28. broken a bone?
  30. 29. been unhappy about my weight?
  31. 30. won a trophy?
  32. 31. cut myself?
  33. 32. been on a diet?
  34. 33. rode in a taxi?
  35. 34. stayed up for 24 hours or more?
  36. 35. been to a concert?
  37. 36. had a crush on someone of the same sex?
  38. 37. had braces?
  39. 38. wore make up?
  40. 39. lost my virginity before I was 16?
  41. 40. kissed someone a different race than myself?
  42. 41. Snuck out of the house?
  43. 42. had oral sex?
  44. 43. dyed my hair?
  45. 44. met someone famous?
  46. 45. been on vacation?
  47. 46. been on a boat?
  48. 47. been on an airplane?
  49. 48. prank called someone?
  50. 49. taken a pregnancy test?
  51. 50. been suspended from school?
Posted 10 hours ago
Every part of me wants you.
Six word story, March 6, 2014 (116/365)

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Posted 10 hours ago
Do not try to be pretty. You weren’t meant to be pretty; you were meant to burn down the earth and graffiti the sky. Don’t let anyone ever simplify you to just “pretty.”
Things I Wish My Mother Had Taught Me | d.a.s (via organicafe)
Posted 10 hours ago

Spell out your name in my ask

  1. A. WHY MY LAST RELATIONSHIP ENDED.
  2. B. FAVORITE BAND.
  3. C. WHO I LIKE AND WHY I LIKE THEM.
  4. D. HARDEST THING I’VE EVER BEEN THROUGH.
  5. E. MY BEST FRIEND.
  6. F. MY FAVOURITE MOVIE.
  7. G. SEXUAL ORIENTATION.
  8. H. DO I SMOKE/DRINK?
  9. I. HAVE ANY TATTOOS OR PIERCINGS?
  10. J. WHAT I WANT TO BE WHEN I GET OLDER.
  11. K. RELATIONSHIP WITH MY PARENTS.
  12. L. ONE OF MY INSECURITIES.
  13. M. VIRGIN OR NOT?
  14. N. FAVOURITE PLACE TO SHOP AT?
  15. O. MY EYE COLOUR.
  16. P. WHY I HATE SCHOOL.
  17. Q. RELATIONSHIP STATUS AS OF RIGHT NOW.
  18. R. FAVOURITE SONG AT THE MOMENT.
  19. S. A RANDOM FACT ABOUT MYSELF.
  20. T. AGE I GET MISTAKEN FOR.
  21. U. WHERE I WANT TO BE RIGHT NOW.
  22. V. LAST TIME I CRIED.
  23. W. CONCERTS I’VE BEEN TO.
  24. X. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF (…)?
  25. Y. DO YOU WANT TO GO TO COLLEGE?
  26. Z. HOW ARE YOU?
Posted 10 hours ago
I want to be able to look at you and feel nothing
Posted 10 hours ago
if someone hurts you, stay the fuck away, no matter how hard it is, stay the fuck away
(via bruisedbbygirl)

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Posted 10 hours ago
It isn’t what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.
― Dale Carnegie (via psych-quotes)